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This story invokes emotion but even after he released all the documents it still doesn't ring true. Part of it is the language used and the overly cautious structure about his thoughts and actions. The following paragraph just didn't seem like a true representation of his thought process:
"Rich SOMA, poor SOMA. My instinct was to make this distinction go away, to show them I know our neighborhood is more complicated than that. To connect on human terms. I told them that it was an early stage startup; Iβm doing this because I feel itβs a way to make the world around me better, to bring people joy through better food. I live here, right on this block, in a loving home with 16 roommates. I love this community. I asked them where they lived. And they responded in unison: βFar away! We canβt afford to live here.β"
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"I then walked home." should have been the next line, and I'm fairly sure the author knows it.
That doesn't excuse what the officers did, but it's not "being a good Samaritan" that backfired. Being nosy is the part that didn't end well.
I'm not even sure the use of force wasn't justified - even in this immensely biased account, he mentions being told to back away by the officers. What are they supposed to do when you ignore them?
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But nowhere in his account is any recognition that this happens to lots and lots of people all the time, it's not special.
The cops are surprised that he's expecting to be treated with dignity and respect, because they aren't used to treating people with dignity and respect, it's not what they do. It's just that usually this isn't directed at well-off white people.
So there are two ways your reaction can go, when you're a well off white person who gets caught in that crap. 1) _I_ don't deserve to be treated this way, because I'm different, and I demand justice. 2) _Nobody_ deserves to be treated this way, and those people who normally get treated this way are _no different_ than me and don't deserve to be either, and I'm going to use what I've got to try and make it so.
The OP is full of me, me, I, I, and what makes him such a person that didn't deserve to be treated like this. Nope, he didn't, neither does _anyone else ever_, and _most_ people who are treated like that are not like him, and it's not a one-time thing either, and frequently has worse consequences than a night in jail. You think the officer would have agreed that he "never should have been there" if he had looked like most of the other people in those cells?
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And for real, what do you expect riding on handlebars in the city at 12:30? Sounds like a great, sober idea!
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First of all, Lyft doesn't exist in most places; not everybody lives in San Francisco.
Second, moving people who have had an accident without proper medical knowledge and procedures and equipment can often make their condition worse. The author does say there are exceptions to his "don't call 911" rule, but he says "they are fewer than you think". Is he claiming that this particular situation was, or wasn't, one of the exceptions? If it was, then how does this situation support the rule? If it wasn't, he's taking on a lot more responsibility; sure, maybe calling Lyft "worked fine" for him when he broke his elbow, but was that because he showed good judgment or because he got lucky? Would it have "worked fine" for the people who got hurt in this scenario?
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police can be thug-ish but this guy is not exactly a posterchild for innocent bystander. I find his thinly veiled sense of entitlement ('I can't have done anything wrong... I work for a non-profit!') pretty obnoxious. There are many victims of police or prosecutorial misconduct out there far more deserving of attention or sympathy. sadly they don't blog.
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This helps give police departments something they can use against rogue officers. It keeps you safer - you are not as likely to get shot or crushed to death by police after writing a letter than after complaining about what they're telling you.
Yes, you shouldn't have to do this and no, police shouldn't feel that they can do what they like. But "don't talk to the police" applies strongly in the OP story.
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I am not trying to justify or even imply that it is correct behavior from the police or that "all police officers are [x] or [y]", but from direct and indirect experience this story doesn't fully surprise me ( I don't think it is right though).
I don't think the conclusions at the end of the blog post are correct though. Not calling 911 or even using lyft to go to the hospital seems like bad rules that are imposed to avoid interacting with the police. A better rule of thumb is to just minimize your dialogue with the police to the bare minimum and keep any intellectual/ironic/satirical comment to yourself. All my friends that have experienced something like this is because they made a smart ass comment in an situation prior to them knowing how fast these things can go downhill.